Here are the 3 common reasons why women cheat on men and why they leave men.
Appreciation Men tend to think of some women as high maintenance because some women come across as needy. But the truth is that all women love and need attention. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY EACH WOMAN NEEDS ATTENTION FROM HER MAN.
But it is not really attention that she needs.. It's the feeling of being appreciated for the effort she makes for you.
She needs to be appreciated for how she tries to look beautiful for you, for how she puts on a special tone of voice when she calls you, for how she remembers something special like your birthday, for how she is interested in your life, for how she loves you and supports you.
Women put a lot of effort into trying to look beautiful for their men and if you don't compliment them, they will end feeling like all that effort is for nothing.
That's why women who cheat often do it with men (who maybe be total loosers) but who shower them with attention and praise for who they are, who make them feel special, beautiful and wanted.
These guys will listen to women and to her problems.
The conversation could turn to how ungrateful "her partner" is and how he doesn't appreciate her and she could end up in his arms soon thereafter.
Feeling Loved, Needed (and Appreciated) To appreciate a woman is to love her.
It is to look at how much effort she puts in and appreciate her for it all.
The second part to appreciation is making a woman feel loved and showing her that through showing her tokens of your appreciation.
No woman can resist a man who makes her feel special. Woman loves when a man shows appreciation and makes her feel special and you can do that by buying her gifts, flowers, sending her messages about how beautiful she is, taking time out to be with her, doing something special for her like taking her to her favourite restaurant or giving her a foot massage.
Communication, Time and Connection Women love to talk and to open up and to connect with another person. Women share and discuss the smallest details with their girlfriends.
If you give a woman the space to truly express herself to you, to open up; if you take the time to really listen to her story about who she is, she will start to feel very close to you and she will want to connect more with you.
She will begin to confide in you about her problems and her deepest dreams and desires.
Let's say Jason did something stupid like was seeing anther woman behind Jane's back and lied to Jane about it. Jane finds out and she feels incredibly hurt, she doesn't feel special or appreciated by Jason at all.
They have an argument and she breaks up with him. But what's going on deep down is very different. She feels that she is not special to Jason, that she will never be special and loved, that he can't be happy just with her.
She gets distant. Her basic need for love, feeling special and appreciated is not met.
She leaves the relationship either emotionally or physically. Women will often give these reasons for why they left or cheated on their partner: He didn't pay attention to me (need for appreciation) I didn't feel he loved me (need for appreciation) I was lonely (need for connection) I needed someone to talk to (need for connection) So if you fancy a lady on here make sure she feels appreciated, special and loved and when she is happy she will make sure you are happy too.
